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Dr Tara' s NEW Top Sex Tips
I know that most of you out there really subscribe to this newsletter hoping that I can impart some esoteric knowledge that will enable you to enthrall your partner with your sex magic. This month you do actually get a bit of that. In later issues I will no doubt return to proclaiming the importance of emotional presence and relationship factors in sexual fulfilment and continue to persuade you of the limitations of pure sexual technique in favour of my lengthy explanantions ofcoaching concepts and ideas about intimacy and connection. So enjoy this while you can.
The Venus Butterfly was first mentioned in the 1980s in an episode of LA Law in which a character smugly claims it as a oral sex technique that can bring any woman to extended and guaranteed orgasm. The actual technique was never described. So, although once somewhat of an urban myth, now sexologists have tried to imagine what it might entail.
The Venus Butterfly version 1 is a 3 prong attack (so to speak); tongue on the clitoris, one finger inside the vagina and the other in the perinanal region. Simultaneous stimulation of these 3 areas is believed to be pretty amazing. Take it slow, let arousal build and perhaps ebb and wane for a while before stopping your teasing and providing the consistent stimulation necessary for orgasm.
The Venus Butterfly version 2 is a little different. The person giving oral sex places their palms together and puts their 2 index fingers inside the vagina (not too far), their thumbs on the clitoris and another finger in the anus. Then you open and close your palms. Is this possible? It's up to you to find out.
V sign is a little something to add to doggy style. Women, spread your first and second fingers apart to a V shape and place them around your clitoris. Squeeze and knead your fingers around your clitoris and his penis to create extra and unexpacted sensation for both of you.
Two Hands can be used for a hand-job. I think most people tend to use only one. Use lube to allow friction-free movement and interlock your fingers and cross your thumbs. Put your hands around his penis and glide your hands up and down the shaft, rhythmically squeezing your hands together at the same time.
An oral sex move to try with a man is to focus on the head of his penis. Take him a little way into your mouth and place your index finger between his penis and your upper teeth, so there can be no danger and concern about teeth. With your tongue, push up forcefully on the underside of this penis head and try to swallow at the same time. This creates an interesting suction sensation.
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