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7 NEW SEX MOVES TO TRY
Many clients complain about sexual boredom, usually after being in a long-term relationship and now finding that sexually, things have become stale and routine. This situation is relatively easy to resolve, assuming that there are no deeper conflicts underlying your dissatisfaction. This article provides you with short but sweet ideas to try if you want to liven up your sex life and introduce some new ways to bring pleasure to yourself and your partner.
HELPING HAND
To add a little something extra special when giving oral sex to a man, ask him to masturbate as you suck the tip of his penis. It may take a little co-ordination as you both need to work out a complementary rhythm but it will be worth it, as it pretty much goves double the stimulation - all in one.
FEET OF FUN If you are at a bit of a loose end, why not lube up your feet and hold his penis between them as you slide them up and down the shaft? Try anything, with any part of your body, and it is going to alter the physical sensations that your partner experiences.
JIGGLE IT
If you are a female who is frustrated at the lack of clitoral stimulation received during intercourse, when your partner is in missionary position, ask him to keep totally still and stay up on his wrists or forearms whilst you jiggle around beneath him to get some heavy duty clitoral excitement. Try rotating your hips to generate a circular motion rather than rubbing straight up and down.
69 plus ONE
People differ as to how much they enjoy the classic 69 position. For some, giving and receiving stimulation at the same time deprives them of the ability to focus on and indulge their own sexual pleasure. If you enjoy it, then add a sex toy to the proceedings for some extra fun. Perhaps a vibrating egg or a mini vibe? It might just overwhelm you with sexual stimulation but, for some, this feeling of sexual overwhelm is quite all-consuming and extremely pleasurable.
GLOVE LOVE
Wearing gloves - leather, velvet or silk - will make any manual stimulation feel new and exciting to your partner.
NO HANDS
Choose whether it will be you or your partner but one of you has his/her hands tied together and then has to use any other part of the body to excite and pleasure the other. Giving pleasure totally without your hands can be a challenge and is definitely a way to get you thinking beyond the obvious.
WRITTEN ON THE BODY
Get some edible icing and write instructions all over your body, telling your partner to follow your orders. Obviously reverse this if you prefer to be more submissive and your guy or girl likes to be in charge.
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 WHO AM I?
You have been reading a newsletter lovingly crafted by me, Dr Tara Few, The UK Sex Coach. I work as a sex, relationship and singles coach.
Sex coaching helps you to make sex about pleasure not performance. You can increase your confidence, calm your sexual anxieties, explore your sexual style and remove the emotional and physical blocks that might reduce your capacity for sexual and sensual pleasure. I work with people who have chosen to do all that they can to make their ideal sex life a reality.
Relationship coaching helps you to communicate more successfully, reduces conflict and enables you to understand your own and your partner's needs, priorities and desires by working out what's not working, what needs to change and how to move forward. It is also about fun and excitement and discovering things about yourself and each other that you never knew. My clients are people who feel that something important is missing from their relationship and who often aren't sure whether the relationship is worth saving.
Singles coaching will help you to reflect upon the role that you want a relationship to play in the new and exciting life that you will make for yourself. Are YOU ready for a relationship? Well find out. I work with people who want to build their self-knowledge, self-esteem and to massively increase their confidence, optimism, purpose and joy in life.
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