If you know that your life is making you feel frustrated and frustrating, bored and boring, undesirable and without desire, then get in touch to arrange a time for us to talk.
I'm Tara Few, The UK Sex Coach and I have been working as a sex, relationship and singles coach since 2006. I help individuals and couples who know that sex is important to them but feel that something crucial is missing from their sex lives. As a relationship coach, I support couples to overcome difficulties with anger, intimacy, betrayal and frustration within their relationship. I can empower you to create a happier relationship that is a source of comfort, strength and peace. As a singles coach I can help you understand why you are still single, support you in becoming less fearful and anxious about dating. I work with you to find a partner who is a great match for the kind of relationship you want to be in and for the person that you are or want to become.
You can benefit from working with me if:
- you are wondering when and if giving up on sex means giving up on your relationship
- you have a problem with erection/orgasm and you feel you are losing your sexual identity
- you feel angry all the time at your partner and feel stuck, trapped and miserable
- you would like to meet someone and can’t understand why you are still single
- you constantly feel resentful and frustrated and can’t stop blaming your partner for everything that is wrong
- sex is making you so anxious or bored that you avoid it
- you would like to start a new relationship but lack confidence in your ability to attract the 'right' sort of person
- you want to try new things and experiment with new experiences but are unsure where to start.
- sex has become more of a sorry performance than a sensual pleasure and you would like to bring more joy into your sex life
- you need support to re-enter the world of dating with confidence and optimism
- you are afraid of intimacy and find it difficult to trust people
WHAT CAN YOU DO WHEN YOUR SEX LIFE STARTS TO GO WRONG?
Most people would prefer to ignore what is happening when their sex life becomes more about anxiety, fear, and boredom than of pleasure, passion and connection. This is the worst thing you can do. Waiting for your problem to go away or resolve itself is not going to help, as sexual problems arise and are exacerbated over time. Left to fester, often the original issue leads to another problem, and then another, and then yet another. The end result is fear and a total avoidance of communication, which begins to infect the happiness, intimacy and quality of your relationship.
IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS MAKING YOU UNHAPPY, WHAT CAN YOU DO?
All relationships will encounter stresses, disagreements and conflict. Relationship coaching enables you to identify and draw on your personal strengths to work through whatever issues you and your partner are facing. I can help you to communicate more successfully, reduce conflict and enable you to understand your own and your partner's needs, priorities and desires by working out what's not working, what needs to change and how to move forward. It is also about fun and excitement and discovering things about yourself and each other that you never knew. My clients are people who feel that something important is missing from their relationship and who often aren't sure whether the relationship is worth saving.
If your partner does not seem interested in trying to improve your relationship, do not worry, we can still work together. I have successfully worked with either both parties in a couple or with just one of a couple. You can learn that putting the focus back on yourself rather than on blaming someone else is the key to a happier relationship. Not because you give up on change but because you know that you will begin the change and your partner will change in response to what you are doing differently.
Since we can only change our own behaviour and awareness, we cannot make anyone else change just because we want them to. Relationship coaching is far more powerful than merely finding ways to make your partner change. We work together with various tools, exercise and communication strategies to bring back intimacy, turn anger into conviction, dissolve frustration and increase your self-belief, confidence and instil a new sense of your own power to influence and improve your life. The new strengths and power that you become aware of mean that you are never going to be the same person again. No longer a victim, you are a creator of change and in charge of your own life and relationship.
In reality there is little clear-cut separation between sex coaching and relationship coaching. For every sexual problem, the emotional state of the relationship is a key factor in a successful outcome. For many relationship difficulties, loss of interest in sex and waning desire are some of the early warning signs that something is wrong.
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WHO WORKS WITH A SINGLES COACH?
I have many years of experience helping people to improve their relationships as well as supporting my clients to find the relationship that feels right for them. Most of us will find ourselves being single at some point and experience has taught me that there are many common worries and anxieties about being in such a situation.
- What if I never meet anyone?
- What if I can’t learn to trust anyone again?
- Why do I always attract people who are bad for me?
- Who am I as a sexual/intimate being?
- How can I be less afraid of rejection?
- How is a relationship going to affect my life?
- Do I really want a relationship?
- Why do all my potential relationships just start to slip away early on?
I have developed a plan of action to help clients reach their relationship goals. I understand the fears and anxieties you may have and I am aware of any excuses, barriers and justifications you may make to yourself about why you are still single!
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Sex, relationship and singles coaching all help you to examine your life, your relationship (or lack of one) and sexual satisfaction and enables you to bring back optimism, courage and direction to the life you create and the person you want to become.
Contact me now to arrange an informal chat about what you could gain from sex coaching.
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