I'm Tara Few, The UK Sex Coach and I work with individuals and couples who know that sex is important to them but feel that something crucial is missing from their sex lives.

You can benefit from working with me if:

•  you are wondering when and if giving up on sex means giving up on your relationship

•  you find yourself avoiding sex

•  you constantly feel resentful and frustrated

•  you would like to start a new relationship but lack confidence in your ability to attract the 'right' sort of person

•  you want to try new things and experiment with new experiences but are unsure where to start.

Most people would prefer to ignore what is happening when sex starts to go wrong. This is the worst thing you can do. Waiting for your problem to go away or resolve itself is not going to help, as sexual problems arise and are exacerbated over time. Left to fester, often the original issue leads to another problem, and then another, and then yet another. The end result is fear and a total avoidance of communication, which begins to infect the happiness, intimacy and quality of your relationship.

Help is at hand! Take a look at the following benefits that people experience during and after sex coaching. Remember that all of these challenges can be met and overcome, leaving you with the knowledge that you can trust in yourself to make massive changes and take courageous action to face any obstacle with conviction and clarity.

BE CONFIDENT, BE SEXUAL!

Do you want?

•  To have a better, more fulfilling and passionate sex life?

•  To increase your sexual confidence and pleasure?

•  More powerful and effective communication skills?

•  To feel more emotionally connected and intimate with your partner?

•  To overcome concerns about your sexual 'performance'?

•  To feel more desirable and less inhibited?

•  To reclaim your energy and desire?

•  To increase your skills and knowledge?

•  Learn ways to manage anxiety during sex

•  To learn more about yourself by examining your sexual persona and style

Most people choose to work with me over the telephone and are reassured by the safe and confidential space that they are given to open up and discuss their sexual concerns with somebody who understands them and who will not judge or criticise them.

I work with people who have very different sexual goals and have straight, gay, lesbian and bisexual clients. I am GLB friendly and fully support any form of consensual activity between adults. Whether you are male or female, in a straight or gay relationship, giving up on sex or not having the kind of sexual connections that you want means sacrificing a huge amount. Resigning yourself to a dull and soul-sapping sex life can drag the rest of your life down with it.

Male and female sex issues share many similarities. It does not matter what your sexual orientation, unfulfilling sex brings up the same kinds of emotions, feelings of inadequacy and defensive posturing. Lack of confidence, anxiety, fear of failure, inability to deal with our vulnerabilities, blaming other people, refusing to take responsibility for our own sexual pleasure all add up to an emotionally poisonous context for sex, where disconnection, rejection and anger are more likely than pleasure, abandonment and empowerment.

Sex coaching gives you a wonderful opportunity to work on creating a positive and sustaining relationship with yourself. We discuss your mindset, your self-esteem, your attitudes to your sexuality and sexual expression, your likes and dislikes, trust in yourself and other people and the feelings that you have about your body. We will find out what specifically is missing from your sex life and what you would like to have instead. It is a journey of self-discovery that brings you awareness of your sexual potential and empowers your sexual self.

If you are no longer willing to settle for second best, for 'making do' with the sex life that you have, then please have a look around my site to discover more about working with The UK Sex Coach.

Contact me now to arrange an informal chat about what you could gain from sex coaching.

Go to IS THIS YOU? To find out more about the types of sexual concerns I can help you to resolve.

Go to FREE STUFF to download articles and information about sex coaching and the common male and female sex problems that I deal with as well as finding ideas for creating your own version of sexual fulfilment and happiness.

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